If you wish to be happy in this life, stop forthwith negative self talk with yourself.
Do not think you are miserable. Do not compare yourself with more fortunate people. Do not compare yourself with your lucky neighbor.
People are always thinking about themselves. How they feel and even they do not know most of the time they are entertaining negative self talk and as a result they make their lives miserable.
Instead of negative thinking, switch to positive thinking of yourself.
Always people think about how others think and feel about themselves.
This is categorically beyond your control. They are free to think whatever they want about you. Why you worry about it ?
Most of the time what we think this and that about us is imaginations. They have no time to think about you. They are thinking about themselves.
However, you have most limited understanding about what others think about yourself. You have no way of knowing what others are thinking about you.
What matters is what you think about yourself.
